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Xeducer  
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Member Since: January 31, 2018

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Information:
Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   March 4, 1969
(55 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   San Diego, California, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type:   Athletic
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   BA/BS (4 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Black
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Hazel
Glasses or Contacts :   None


LifeStyle
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Prefer not to say
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Whole adult life
Dress:   Suit
Social Orientation :   Prefer not to say
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Assertive

Personal
Male Endowment: Long/
Average
Circumcised: Yes
Religion: Atheist

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55 year old Man in San Diego, California, United States Looking For: Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 women) or Groups

Profile for Xeducer
For me the connection is everything, the look in her eye, the way she catches her breath, the way she steals herself, the subtlest expression of emotion that flickers across her face. These are all the most exquisite of pleasures. You need to understand someone before you can fully take their surrender and enjoy it to the absolute. My hand likes to own a woman, to run itself over her curves and to sense every involuntary quiver beneath my touch. I also like to strike with my hand, the sharp crack of palm and fingers against flesh, the confident assertion of my right to control, to maintain tight discipline, to fuel desire. I enjoy the application of the flogger and of course the whip. Tools to subjugate, to encourage and to impose Dominance. A controlling touch, mixed with sensual stimulation, that is the intoxicating cocktail that I create, to make unable to resit the need to surrender unconditionally to my will. If you think I strike a chord, if I resonate with your ache inside, why not reach out to me? I am fit and workout, I am told that I have a well toned body. Although Domination is very much about the mind, it helps if you are attracted to the man who is going to take your surrender. That said I am not hung up on physical attributes, it is your mind that matters to me. I have an all over sun tan. A benefit from being lucky enough to own a very secluded villa in the Algarve. So if you are fancy being whipped outdoors in the hot sunshine then that is an option. Frankly until you have been 'taken' in a hot-tub, you have not truly lived. [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
My ideal person is someone who appreciates the intensity of the erotic emotions which stem from 'power exchange'. Someone who sees their submission as a means to escape the responsibilities of life, to on occasion experience a different way of being.

You will be confident and self assured in your own life, our engagements would sit outside of our individual day to day lives. A 'bubble' in which the rules are rewritten to suite our alternative darker desires.

You may seek total escape and submission; to be immersed in meaningful and prolonged subjugation. The villa in Portugal is secluded, and offers the scope for full on 24/7 Domination. Or maybe you just need to sink into submission occasionally, to escape the world for a while.

We will create an esoteric relationship that perhaps only we can fully appreciate and understand.

You may be unsure of what you want, you may simply need a guide, someone who understands what it is that you feel in the pit of your stomach, who knows what it is that drew you here; even if maybe as yet you don't fully know yourself.


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